Tuesday, February 12, 2013
Oh The Things I Have Seen
When I was in my early teens a man named Phol Phot stirred up a group of farmers living on the border of Kampuchea (Cambodia). These farmers were outraged because their farms were being bombed due to the Viet Nam Conflict/War. They blamed the U.S. for the bombings and decided to follow Phol Phot and take control of the government and the country. At such a young age I didn't realize the genocide that followed. I later learned of the atrocities and also the bravery of the Kampuchean people to escape communism from the Viet Namese who later overtook the Khmer Rouge. I heard these heart wrenching stories while serving an LDS mission in Los Angeles, CA. Many of the refugees had been transplanted in the LA County area. I never believed that the Viet Namese stronghold would ever loosen, but it did. Years later the Kampucheans were given their country back. It still faces many problems but the strong are trying so very hard to restore the country to what it once was.
When I was a junior in high school I watched as a group of Iranian militants overtook the U.S. Embassy and held 66 people hostage. Some hostages were able to escape, a couple were released, but 52 remained in captivity for 444 days. I celebrated with the rest of America when they were finally released. Among those hostages was an Arkansan Soldier who grew up not far from where I live now. This uprising and taking of hostages came about as a retaliation against the U.S. for allowing the overthrown Shah of Iran into the U.S. for medical treatment. Throughout this ordeal, President Jimmy Carter lost favor with a majority of Americans. Ronald Reagan was elected our new President and just minutes after he was sworn in the hostages were released.
Also in my teenage years Apartheid was taking place in South Africa. In the late '70's an anti-apartheid activist named Steve Biko was tortured to death. Another activist, Nelson Mandela, had been arrested and sentenced to life in Prison when I was just a baby. Nelson Mandela later became the President of South Africa. He was the first South African President elected by white and blacks.
The Phillipine activists fought against a leader, Ferdinand Marcos, who had left their country in a financial crisis. Rebels in Nicaragua tried to overtake their government. As a young adult I watched the Berlin Wall fall and the celebration that ensued as a divided country came together. I watched in horror as a group of Chinese students took a stand against Communism and ended up losing their lives.
I also recall that an electrician in Poland felt that workers in this communist country deserved rights. He co-founded the first independant trade union and later became the president of the country newly freed from communist rule. I also watched in disbelief as the Soviet Union collapsed. Who would have guessed that this stronghold of communist rule could ever be disbanded. I watched as a group of terrorists attacked the World Trade Center in New York and gave all Americans a wake up call that our land was not immune to tragedy. It later changed our perspective on peace when the terrorists flew planes into the twin towers and thousands were killed. We were quick to retaliate as a nation and entered into a war on terror that is still ongoing.
Since then several dictators have fallen and countries are now struggling under a new government.
I have also been blessed to see good things in my lifetime. I laughingly recounted a lot of the things we did and didn't have as I grew up when my two teenage daughters lamented about how they needed their own cell phones.
I remember thinking I was so smart when I was able to stretch the phone cord under my bedroom (the phone was right across the hall on the wall) and in a contorted shape with my head inches above the floor I was able to carry on private conversations with my friends! If I only had a picture now of that hilarious sight and only realized then that when you are speaking to someone right at the space between the door and the floor that you might as well just broadcast the conversation. That privacy I thought I had so smartly engineered was only in my imagination. We've now gone from twisting cords to cordless and even wireless communication.
I remember being introduced to my first computer when I was a freshman in college. My roommate was a computer science major who needed my typing skills. From that moment I was hooked and did everything I could to learn more about computers.
I remember watching our family adventures on reel to reel projectors. Now I can create a movie from my phone and share it with the world.
Remember when someone in the neighborhood got their first microwave? We all stood and watched this amazing machine warm up a drink or a little food. I was so astonished that you could cook food in this thing and eat it!
I guess living a half century has me looking back and things with wonder. I confess that I am truly amazed that we were able to survive without all these luxuries...and that now we are truly stymied when something goes wrong with our new technology.
A New Coffee Cake To Try
Streusel For Center of Cake
1 stick cold salted butter
¾ cup flour
½ cup packed brown sugar
½ cup granulated sugar
3 teaspoons cinnamon
Streusel For Top Of Cake
1 sticks cold salted butter
1 cups flour
½ cup packed brown sugar
½ cup granulated sugar
3 teaspoons cinnamon
Make each streusel in exactly the same way…Add the cold butter to a medium sized bowl and then add the dry ingredients. Cut the butter into the dry ingredients until it is all incorporated and resembles a coarse meal. The one made with less flour will be softer. Store both in the refrigerator or freezer until ready to use.
First prepare both of the streusels and keep them in the freezer or refrigerator until ready to use. Roast and chop the pecans and chop the dark chocolate into small pieces and set aside. Prepare the batter and pour it into your paper- lined cake pan.
1-1 ½ cups dark chocolate mini chips or shards (I used 1 ½)
1-1 ½ cups chopped, roasted pecans (I used 1 ½)
For cake:
1 ½ cups whole milk
3 stick butter, room temperature
6 eggs
3 cups sugar
4 teaspoons vanilla
3 cups all purpose flour
1½ cups cake flour
3 ¼ teaspoons baking powder
2 teaspoons salt
In a small microwave safe bowl, add the milk and butter together and heat until the butter has melted, then set aside. In a separate large bowl, add the eggs, sugar and vanilla and whisk together until all of the ingredients are well incorporated. Sift all of the dry ingredients together into a separate bowl. You are going to add the dry ingredients in 3 additions and the liquid in 2 additions. We do this to prevent any lumps from forming because there is a good bit of liquid to incorporate. Begin with adding 1/3 of the flour into the eggs and whisk well, then add half of the butter/milk mixture and whisk again. Repeat with the rest of the ingredients until you have achieved a smooth batter and everything is well combined.
Pour in half of the batter and add all of the streusel made with the ¾ cup of flour.
Top this with the pecans and dark chocolate and pour the other half of the cake batter on top. Add the other streusel all over that will create a lovely crunchy top and bake this at 350°F for 30-40 minutes until the cake is golden brown and tests clean…do not over bake.
When cool, drizzle the milks sugar on the cake and set aside until ready to serve.
Coffeecake (makes 1-14” square cake)
Glaze:
2 cups powdered sugar, sifted
5 teaspoons whole milk
2 teaspoons vanilla (I increased from 1 teaspoon)
Monday, March 14, 2011
Spring Deliveries
Roisin went into labor and delivered 4 little kittens. One kitten was stillborn but the other 3 are doing fine.
At the same time that this was going on, my brothers brought us two baby squirrels that had been abandoned. They don't even have their eyes open.
Since I seem to be the haven for all strays (how else could you end up with 5 cats, three newborn kittens, and 2 baby squirrels!) I was fully prepared to bottle feed the squirrels with some pet formula that I happen to have in my fridge. I was not looking forward to getting up every few hours to feed them when I had to be up so early to teach seminary. Four thirty in the morning comes really early, especially when we had to "spring forward". Then I had this amazing idea! What if I slipped the squirrels into the basket with Roisin? Brilliant idea! I placed the baby squirrels in the basket and she didn't seem to mind. After a short time she began grooming them. It took the little squirrels about an hour to warm up to Rosie and then, Voila! They began nursing. Before you know it, they are cuddled up with the three kittens just as content as can be.
I must confess.....Life is good.
Monday, December 28, 2009
Christmas in the Rock
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
My Little Trip To New York
Thursday, December 10, 2009
Organic.....Is It Worth It?
Friday, November 06, 2009
Halloween With The Bisbee's
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
A Purpose And A Plan
This friend works with adults that suffer from mental illness. Tragically, most of the people she works with are also homeless. She is making scarves and hats for them to protect them from the cold.
Saturday, October 03, 2009
It's Good To Be Me!
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Little Rock to New York to Madrid
Saturday, March 28, 2009
4 Kids...Spring Break...Boredom
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Me, Three, and History

It is on days like this that I am so grateful for the simple teachings of my grandmother, Lessie. Throughout my life I listened to her tell me that in God's eyes there is no color. She taught me to be colorblind and status blind when viewing people. It has served me well in this life.
Today I was able to share a marvelous day with my children and pass these same teachings to them. We now have a new President and I am happy to say that the only issue I have about his appointment is that we belong to different political parties. I, along with my children, will do all we can to support this man and will keep him in our prayers.
It was a glorious day to snuggle up with my kiddos on our couch and watch the inauguration of President Obama. It was wonderful for them to see history in the making and another testament that their really are no limits to what they can do in this life. His presidency will show that the barriers are down and, yes, it is possible! I am glad I had this day, and I am glad I shared it with my children. So, world, embrace the change and support this man!
Thursday, November 20, 2008
The Esteemed One
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
What???!!!
This morning as I was driving the kids to school YaYa started talking about the "almost accident". I again reflected on the glare the lady gave me and said something to the kids about how you shouldn't glare at people that you almost hit with your BMW. LiLi quickly piped up that the lady was glaring at her, not me. I then told her that the lady wouldn't be glaring at her, she wasn't driving the car. She then responded that she was the one who raised both arms and with a disgusted look on her face mouthed "What??!!!" to the lady.
Now I understand the glare!
Sunday, November 16, 2008
Just Do It!
So, now that that is out of the way. I had a few minutes before I left for church and just thought I would take care of the big elephant in the room, or rather, on the blog. Now when I sign in to blogger I don't have to feel guilty for not updating:
- my latest thoughts
- goings on
- going
- crazy
- fun things the kids have done
- not so fun things the kids have done
Now I can go off to church secure in the knowledge that I did my small part today.
Until the next time!
Sunday, October 05, 2008
On a Trolley to Treasure Island
Unfortunately, this might have been the highlight of the trip for me. The play was Treasure Island. I am not a fan of pirates, swashbuckling, treasure hunting, ships, did I mention pirates? I really just endured the play. The kids enjoyed it. That is good enough for me.
After the play we walked next door to the park and ate a picnic lunch. The weather was great! There was a slight breeze and the temps were about 70. Just perfect for some fun in the park. The kids were able to run around and chase geese after they ate. They loved it!
The geese........not so much! I love this school and I love the teachers. We are so fortunate
to attend this school. I am having so much fun being the room parent and doing all these fun things.
Emotional Tsunami vs Hot Flashes
With her Tsunami she just needs a few doors to slam. I will need to buy stock in Kleenex and keep a few dozen boxes on hand at all times. It would probably be a good idea to invest in some extra pillows. If she screams into 3 stacked on top of each other do you think it will mute the screams?
With my hot flashes I just need to have someone invent a portable air conditioner that I can strap to me at all times. I could move to the North Pole. I just need to keep a snow bank in my back yard that I could run to in tshirts and shorts whenever I need it. I could invest in an ice company and keep tubs of it on hand always. Why, oh why did my great great grandparents have to sell the ice house business? Didn't they know it would come in handy one day. Who said ice houses would be passe with the invention of the electric refrigerator? I have become immune to my kids calling me "Ice Queen" because I keep our house nice and cool all the time. Can I help it if my kids like to wear coats and quilts around the house all the time? The temp seems just fine to me.
I guess it is a debate that will go on for eternity. I can't say that I enjoy either state. For now I will just have to keep pamprin and ice on hand.
Sunday, September 28, 2008
It's Gil Stovall, Ya'll!
This is his mom giving him (no she is not giving him the "finger") directions to get back home. She is the economics teacher for the elementary children. LiLi has been learning about China and their economic system since school began. Mrs. Stovall even brought each of them a small gift when she returned from China. For those non Olympic enthusiasts (I, so , do not connect with you....I was glued to my tv night and day!) the 2008 Summer Olympics were held in Beijing. China (for those non geographic enthusiasts).
Gil Stovall: Yes, what is your question?
Girl: You are hot!
Gil Stovall: Ummm, thank you. Anyone else have a question?
In the 5th grade he got a lot of giggles and whispering mixed in with adoring, worshipful looks. I think the elementary kids were a little more interested in his training.
Building on yesterdays blog about Miss YaYa getting boys to do things for her.....The whole week we were preparing for him to come to our school, she was not the least bit interested.
After he came to the school she took on a whole new attitude.
Suddenly she was very interested in the Men's Olympic Swim Team. She suddenly wanted to go to the University of Tennessee, now. Isn't it great that she is only in 5th grade and wants to jump right into college courses. Her enthusiasm was dampened just a little when I told her that Stalking Gil Stovall 101 had been dropped from the curriculum this year. My girl is no quitter, though. She decorated her notebook with his personal, signed autograph (She got LiLi to ask him to write a personal autograph with her name and a message. Apparently she was struck dumb by his hotness and could not speak for herself). She even wrote his name about 100 times in different styles and colors. Isn't she creative? Anyway, we were impressed by the sincerity of this young man and his dedication to his sport. And, just for the record...he has beaten Michael Phelps a couple of times in the Butterfly..just not at a major meet. He beat him during training. How many of us can say that?
Go Stovall!
Saturday, September 27, 2008
Why do it myself when I can just get a boy to do it?
This concept is just a little foreign to me. I did not grow up in a family of flirts. None of us flirted. We were all very serious, goal oriented, "I can do it myself" type of people. It would never have occurred to me to ask a boy to do something. When I was in High School I was placed in an experimental co-ed PE class. There were only 4 girls in the class. I competed with them and beat them in various games. I doubt they would have done anything for me if I had asked them to.
LiLi then piped up saying "I don't ask boys to do anything. If I want them to do something for me I pay them with 4th grade bucks." Now that is something I can relate to.
I think I am in big trouble. YaYa is not old enough to be flirting is she? The teen years just might do me in!






















